Summer Solstice at Avebury Stone Circle - oh what a night! Fantastic. I managed to get today off work as time in lieu - I've been pretty busy of late and working extended hours so it's been a godsend to have a random day off.
We headed out to Avebury last night with our friends, camping gear and a sense of reverence and fun - ready to celebrate the summer solstice with the rest of the hippies, crusties and druids. Once alighting from the bus we were enveloped by a crowd of bikers, hippies and the od speckling of druids, 'fairies'and green men.
First stop, as per usual, was the pub. Quite conveniently right where the bus stopped. The Red Lion is the main (if not only) pub in Avebury (a small village surrounded by standing stones, not that dis-similar from Stonehenge)and is 'one of the most haunted pubs in Wiltshire'. There's a well in the front room where it's said at least one of the villagers from times long gone has met their demise. Apparently a woman by the name of Florie found herself in the arms of another while her husband was away for some months. On his return he found her in bed with this other man and in a fit of rage he killed her and dumped her body in the well which is now inside the pub and serves as a table with a glass top. The well is 83ft deep and even if she wasn't dead but just unconscious when thrown to her resting place she would've been no more when she got to the bottom. So now the ghost of Florie inhabits the Red Lion where she tampers with the beards of men who dare enter for a pint. It's said that her righteous husband had a beard (although the artists interpretation of the story by the well shows a man with a tach.) and this is why she particularly picks on the bearded among us.
From there we went and found a camp site - conveniently a short walk from the main stone circle - and pitched tents, or rather, watched the boys pitch the tents while we stood back with beers and words of encouragement!
It was still light until about 10pm and the sky stayed lovely and clear. I'm always enchanted by the sky, both here and at home in Aus, but here it seems much more crowded with stars. The cloudiness of the milky way was right above us scattered like fairy dust across the deep midnight blue of the heavenly vault. I can pick out Orion's Belt (which is the saucepan at home, but upside down/right way up) aside from that though I view with ignorance and wonder like someone from ancient times who saw the gods play and the turning of time acted out for them on a nightly basis. It's lovely when you get into the countryside, away from the large towns to be able to see the stars so clearly.
The camp site was full, but not too crowded. People from all parts of the country and walks of life wandered around wishing all a happy summer solstice, small groups of people sat around fires drumming, singing and drinking/smoking and a druid sat not far purveying the festivities with watchful eyes.
After relaxing, talking, drinking and passing around the od smoke Mark and I decided to head off for a walk around the area and to check out what was going on in the circles. There were cops everywhere but everyone was friendly and smiling, the cops were helpful rather than prescriptive and it was quite a peaceful and safe atmosphere. We made our way towards the avenue, which in turn takes you to the other end of site - the sanctuary - but as we neared our turning we were drawn the other way towards the sound of drumming. We climbed the bank which surrounds the main circle and sat watching the celebrations taking place inside the stones. A group of drummers kept the fire twirlers, glowing poi and jugglers in time and the spectacle was much like watching a firework in slow motion. When the drummers finished their set in the circle another group would take up where they left off, replying to the central group and encouraging them to continue.
After sitting for a while and quietly bopping to the drums Mark headed off to the 'inner circle' (a smaller circle of stone placed inside the larger stoned outside ring). Meaning to catch up with him there after a few more minutes of watching I remained there, mesmerised by the light show and the drums. How wonderful is it to have so many from differing backgrounds and areas come together to celebrate being alive, the gift of sunlight and the growth of crops planted in the spring - to give thanks for what is on a daily basis quite often taken for granted, and to revel in the wonderful freedom and energy of all this with your fellow beings.
After contemplating this for a while, I too made my way down the embankment towards the stones and into the clusters of revelers to be surrounded by the swirls of fire, undulating dancers, the rhythmic beating from the drummers and the haunting sounds of pipes. There were people everywhere either dancing to the music or lying quietly (I almost stood on one or two) contemplating the longest day, the festivities or maybe just taking store of the year past and making prayers for time ahead.
I wandered about taking it all in and then back up to the top of the embankment to see it from that perspective again. Whilst sat there I had the urge to write again - something I haven't done for a few months now aside from this blog. My short stories seem to have dried up and my inspiration quashed by other commitments. But I wrote without thinking and it seemed I was talking to a higher me. One that wasn't chastising me for not doing this or that, rather encouraging and inspiring me to take up my pen (or keyboard) again and continue on to follow my dreams... Not only in that area of my life, but others too. Being able to create is one of our greatest gifts and it's a shame not to use it.
After sitting there for however long I made my way to the inner circle and after a while realised there was no more chance of finding Mark there than there is of a needle in a haystack, so I headed back to base camp, pretty sure that the others would have stopped their dithering and made the way towards the drumming too. I was looking forward to a recoup and rest before the sunrise when everything would kick off again, with more rituals, drumming and celebration.
When I got there I found Mark at our tent and the others still sorting themselves out to go! It is lovely going somewhere like this with a group of mates, but so frustrating trying to decide things as a group - I'm so glad I hadn't waited for them to get themselves sorted! After deciding a meeting place for all they headed off the way we had come. Mark and I sat and chatted, played light sabers with the torches and hung out. Realising that we had no papers though Mark valiantly got up and wandered about the camp site to find some. He returned not only with papers but with some fantastic chocolate/guarana balls which were delicious and perked us both up a bit.
His feet getting itchy again Mark headed back to the circle for a while and I fell asleep watching the stars. Just before dawn the temperature really dropped and then my alarm went off and a little boys voice rang through the camp site telling us to wake up and see the beautiful rainbow formed over the fields. I simply snuggled deeper into my sleeping bag, dreaming of the beautiful rainbow we'd been told about.
Friday, June 22, 2007
Sunday, June 03, 2007
It was great to get back home and spend some time with friends and family, but it went so damn quick - plus I forgot to take a camera so my blog will have to wait a while before I get the disposable developed along with my films from the last few months actually... Should get that done.
My stop over in Bangkok was good - definitely gonna do that again. Bought some things for friends and something to wear for the wedding. I got told off by this Thai woman at a stall for not buying a necklace after I said I would, I looked in my purse and decided I should buy dinner instead. She shook her finger at me and said 'You bad woman, I already have in bag, you say you buy, you bad woman...Where you from?!' To which I said 'I'm really sorry, can't get it' and walked off.
I landed on Tuesday night last week - the 23rd I think it was. I always seem to travel around the twentieth of the month, strange that. Julianne picked me up from the airport with her new bloke. Nice guy and really big-like a giant with a beard. Stayed there on Tuesday night and caught up with the summah dog too. She slept on my bed which was lovely - kept me warm it was cold back in Melbourne - brrr.
On Wednesday I caught up with Toby at his new place. It was kind of disconcerting being back for the first few days. Everything feels more different each time I go back, and I guess I've changed a little too. Anyway was good to see Tobe, play some pool which both of us are pretty crap at, unless Toby was playing at my skill level...hmmm Stayed up all night drinking rum (yum) and caught a tram home in the morning. That's definitely one thing I love about Melbourne - trams. Better than the ones in Amsterdam too.
On Thursday Julianne had the day off so we headed out to the huge Savers in Sydney Road (think it's Sydney Road) and played dress ups with the clothes. They had this wicked long white space vest/martian outfit there with loads of sparkly bits on it which was way fun and some cool sixties kinda sandly shoes which I got to strut around in for the whole of our 'browse'. Bought a hat and had the yummiest souvalaki, if only they really knew how to make them here. They are so damn good!
On Thursday night I headed out to catch up with Jen. As I left the train station I was walking down the road texting for directions and walked straight into a bike rack, bent right over it, 'cause the top part of me with my back pack kept going and the bounced upright again. Didn't hurt anything but my pride when some guy came up really concerned to ask if I was OK. I walked off muttering to myself so I possibly looked a bit od.
We got hennaed and hammered for Jen's hen's night. Was a good laugh and at her friends place who is also really nice. Jen attracts the loveliest of people, she's got such light about her. It was great to catch up and have a laugh before the 'seriousness' of the last days before The Wedding - Which was absolutely gorgeous and a lot of fun.
Jen arrived first and then the guests came. The hall was bedecked with gold and red, coloured flags and a small stage was adorned with a gold mendap in which sat two gold chairs, one which held a very regal and serene looking Jen. Personally I would've been packing it. As things started to settle a bit Craig arrived and after a little prompt from the celebrant all the kids and women rushed to the door where he paid us all in the finest currency know to man - chocolate coins. Craig was escorted to where Jen sat and a hush came over the room as the celebrant did her thang. Seven of Jen and Craig's friends got up and formed a horse shoe kind of shape and the be gilded and jeweled couple in their gorgeous clothes walked the seven steps of marriage, Jen receiving a flower for her bouquet each time and finally at the last step a garland to place around their necks. As they sat down they were exchanged as a sign of something. After the vows an all 5 or so Indian dancers turned up on the dance floor and started getting on down Indian style, and then a few of the guests learnt a few dance moves to ad to their repartee.
After that, or even while that was going on people got up and were mingling and topping up drinks. Em and Aaron were there along with a friend of mine from Primary and Secondary school that I haven't seen for something mad like 11 years. I also met some other great people and drank possibly too much. Still I managed to keep my kit on and not feed the plants and whatever wildlife is around.
Speeches made me cry, but then I cry at lots now days, blood diamond made me weep like a baby as did that track Starry Night a few days ago. I'm getting soft!
I hitched a lift to Warragul with Em and Aaron the next day after a pit stop brunch at Craig's family's. It's always great to see Aaron and Marie, all be it a little strange to be going back to the same place I did the most of my growing up. Every nook and cranny have a number of memories attached to them - like walking into the front room and seeing myself in my minds eye singing to Def Leopard into a hairbrush, or making up 'water dances' to Kylie Minogue in the swimming pool. Mind you Melbourne is a bit like that too, although I didn't often walk down the streets singing cock rock into a hairbrush, drive definitely, but not walking. It's very much Aaron's and Marie's now though with all the work they've done! Every time I turn up something new is going on, just finished and about to take place. It looks fantastic. They're kicking goals as Aaron would say and both seem happy with the way things are going which is brilliant. Kerry came around for dinner on Sunday night and she's doing well for herself now too, happiness all round for everyone!
The Gul

Aaron took they day off on Monday so we hung out a bit and I had the chance to go through my stuff, pack what I could and drop a few boxes at Jen's. I did get to take my CD collection with me this time although it made up the majority of my weight allocation on the plane. Cook books come next time!
On Tuesday morning I headed back to Preston and caught up with Toby and Briony that evening. We went to the Tote where we met up with Briony, what a trip seeing Bri again! But a good one, some mates don't change and you don't change with them either, Toby and Briony are like that, or maybe we change in the same direction? Who knows. When the Tote close we headed into town to Showgirls Bar 20. I dunno how many Tequila shots we did, and I don't even like Tequila. Those dancing girls are damn toned, but I suppose spending 8 hours a day would make you pretty fit. We chatted to a few and one was going to accept a fiver as part payment to a dance for me, but I didn't like her underwear and had a different girl dance for me - nice black lingerie - not that they keep in on long. I asked her if she'd 'dance' for me - sounds so porn - but no crotch gyrating, touching my boobs, in fact I just don't like being touched. She was cool with that and asked if I wanted a private room or just there in the main room. I said I didn't care so she took us all to a private room so people didn't ogle. Makes no sense to me, it's a tittie bar, that's what you're supposed to do isn't it - Ogle? Anyway, $50 for three songs for all three of us. She whipped her gear off pretty quick and I learnt some interesting things, like I can't focus on a tit about 3mm from my face, but 5cm away and sight is fine, they don't dance to the music, also no arse slapping, I did ask first, and they can touch you but not vice verse. Toby reckons she put her nipple in his mouth, I dunno, jury's still out for me on that one.
When she'd done and we sat out in the big room again the stripper from the beginning of our 'stay' came over and said she'd bee really nice, talking too me and whatever so why hadn't I chosen her for a dance, blah blah, blah. So I said, 'Ahh, I've had enough of this you're like that woman in Thailand "You bad lady, you don't buy" I can't be bothered, I just didn't want to alright?' so she turned around and started crying. Very strange, but anyway, we moved seats and watched the girls from a different angle.
I feel like dancin'

When the cash ran dry we headed off into the night. Next day I caught up with a friend of mine who's recently been inducted into Police-dom. He seems pretty happy with the change but in true Leo style is looking for his next challenge. I think I was still pissed from the night before so had a beer with my breakfast - postpone the hangover an' all. I got some souvenirs and walked about with Tony for most of the day then jumped on a tram again back to Julianne's.
Thursday rocked around and all too soon it was time to jump on a plane again. It's always good to get home again though and seeing the lovely Mark when I knocked on the door was worth however many hours it took to get there... ahh, in 'at sweet?
My stop over in Bangkok was good - definitely gonna do that again. Bought some things for friends and something to wear for the wedding. I got told off by this Thai woman at a stall for not buying a necklace after I said I would, I looked in my purse and decided I should buy dinner instead. She shook her finger at me and said 'You bad woman, I already have in bag, you say you buy, you bad woman...Where you from?!' To which I said 'I'm really sorry, can't get it' and walked off.
I landed on Tuesday night last week - the 23rd I think it was. I always seem to travel around the twentieth of the month, strange that. Julianne picked me up from the airport with her new bloke. Nice guy and really big-like a giant with a beard. Stayed there on Tuesday night and caught up with the summah dog too. She slept on my bed which was lovely - kept me warm it was cold back in Melbourne - brrr.
On Wednesday I caught up with Toby at his new place. It was kind of disconcerting being back for the first few days. Everything feels more different each time I go back, and I guess I've changed a little too. Anyway was good to see Tobe, play some pool which both of us are pretty crap at, unless Toby was playing at my skill level...hmmm Stayed up all night drinking rum (yum) and caught a tram home in the morning. That's definitely one thing I love about Melbourne - trams. Better than the ones in Amsterdam too.
On Thursday Julianne had the day off so we headed out to the huge Savers in Sydney Road (think it's Sydney Road) and played dress ups with the clothes. They had this wicked long white space vest/martian outfit there with loads of sparkly bits on it which was way fun and some cool sixties kinda sandly shoes which I got to strut around in for the whole of our 'browse'. Bought a hat and had the yummiest souvalaki, if only they really knew how to make them here. They are so damn good!
On Thursday night I headed out to catch up with Jen. As I left the train station I was walking down the road texting for directions and walked straight into a bike rack, bent right over it, 'cause the top part of me with my back pack kept going and the bounced upright again. Didn't hurt anything but my pride when some guy came up really concerned to ask if I was OK. I walked off muttering to myself so I possibly looked a bit od.
We got hennaed and hammered for Jen's hen's night. Was a good laugh and at her friends place who is also really nice. Jen attracts the loveliest of people, she's got such light about her. It was great to catch up and have a laugh before the 'seriousness' of the last days before The Wedding - Which was absolutely gorgeous and a lot of fun.
Jen arrived first and then the guests came. The hall was bedecked with gold and red, coloured flags and a small stage was adorned with a gold mendap in which sat two gold chairs, one which held a very regal and serene looking Jen. Personally I would've been packing it. As things started to settle a bit Craig arrived and after a little prompt from the celebrant all the kids and women rushed to the door where he paid us all in the finest currency know to man - chocolate coins. Craig was escorted to where Jen sat and a hush came over the room as the celebrant did her thang. Seven of Jen and Craig's friends got up and formed a horse shoe kind of shape and the be gilded and jeweled couple in their gorgeous clothes walked the seven steps of marriage, Jen receiving a flower for her bouquet each time and finally at the last step a garland to place around their necks. As they sat down they were exchanged as a sign of something. After the vows an all 5 or so Indian dancers turned up on the dance floor and started getting on down Indian style, and then a few of the guests learnt a few dance moves to ad to their repartee.
After that, or even while that was going on people got up and were mingling and topping up drinks. Em and Aaron were there along with a friend of mine from Primary and Secondary school that I haven't seen for something mad like 11 years. I also met some other great people and drank possibly too much. Still I managed to keep my kit on and not feed the plants and whatever wildlife is around.
Speeches made me cry, but then I cry at lots now days, blood diamond made me weep like a baby as did that track Starry Night a few days ago. I'm getting soft!
I hitched a lift to Warragul with Em and Aaron the next day after a pit stop brunch at Craig's family's. It's always great to see Aaron and Marie, all be it a little strange to be going back to the same place I did the most of my growing up. Every nook and cranny have a number of memories attached to them - like walking into the front room and seeing myself in my minds eye singing to Def Leopard into a hairbrush, or making up 'water dances' to Kylie Minogue in the swimming pool. Mind you Melbourne is a bit like that too, although I didn't often walk down the streets singing cock rock into a hairbrush, drive definitely, but not walking. It's very much Aaron's and Marie's now though with all the work they've done! Every time I turn up something new is going on, just finished and about to take place. It looks fantastic. They're kicking goals as Aaron would say and both seem happy with the way things are going which is brilliant. Kerry came around for dinner on Sunday night and she's doing well for herself now too, happiness all round for everyone!
The Gul

Aaron took they day off on Monday so we hung out a bit and I had the chance to go through my stuff, pack what I could and drop a few boxes at Jen's. I did get to take my CD collection with me this time although it made up the majority of my weight allocation on the plane. Cook books come next time!
On Tuesday morning I headed back to Preston and caught up with Toby and Briony that evening. We went to the Tote where we met up with Briony, what a trip seeing Bri again! But a good one, some mates don't change and you don't change with them either, Toby and Briony are like that, or maybe we change in the same direction? Who knows. When the Tote close we headed into town to Showgirls Bar 20. I dunno how many Tequila shots we did, and I don't even like Tequila. Those dancing girls are damn toned, but I suppose spending 8 hours a day would make you pretty fit. We chatted to a few and one was going to accept a fiver as part payment to a dance for me, but I didn't like her underwear and had a different girl dance for me - nice black lingerie - not that they keep in on long. I asked her if she'd 'dance' for me - sounds so porn - but no crotch gyrating, touching my boobs, in fact I just don't like being touched. She was cool with that and asked if I wanted a private room or just there in the main room. I said I didn't care so she took us all to a private room so people didn't ogle. Makes no sense to me, it's a tittie bar, that's what you're supposed to do isn't it - Ogle? Anyway, $50 for three songs for all three of us. She whipped her gear off pretty quick and I learnt some interesting things, like I can't focus on a tit about 3mm from my face, but 5cm away and sight is fine, they don't dance to the music, also no arse slapping, I did ask first, and they can touch you but not vice verse. Toby reckons she put her nipple in his mouth, I dunno, jury's still out for me on that one.
When she'd done and we sat out in the big room again the stripper from the beginning of our 'stay' came over and said she'd bee really nice, talking too me and whatever so why hadn't I chosen her for a dance, blah blah, blah. So I said, 'Ahh, I've had enough of this you're like that woman in Thailand "You bad lady, you don't buy" I can't be bothered, I just didn't want to alright?' so she turned around and started crying. Very strange, but anyway, we moved seats and watched the girls from a different angle.
I feel like dancin'

When the cash ran dry we headed off into the night. Next day I caught up with a friend of mine who's recently been inducted into Police-dom. He seems pretty happy with the change but in true Leo style is looking for his next challenge. I think I was still pissed from the night before so had a beer with my breakfast - postpone the hangover an' all. I got some souvenirs and walked about with Tony for most of the day then jumped on a tram again back to Julianne's.
Thursday rocked around and all too soon it was time to jump on a plane again. It's always good to get home again though and seeing the lovely Mark when I knocked on the door was worth however many hours it took to get there... ahh, in 'at sweet?