Please excuse me I have had 4 of those today - apparently that constitutes binge drinking, if you read the paper here that is...

I tried to go shopping for some shoes today in Hastings, and found that it was an impossible task. Unless of course I happened to be about 60 years old and was looking for a pair of homey-peds. I think I spelt that wrong, but you get the idea, those old people shoes.... Looks like I have been given a mission! Will let you know how that one goes...at least I work in Brighton!

We (Mark kindly came on the re-con with me) ended up at the pier - which is quite touristy - and I did find a skirt that I could almost wear - if wasn't such a tight-arse. But anyway, went to the gritty palace,not a bad pub. Every pint we bought gave us a raffle ticket in a draw for a hamper. The basket was really nice - perfect for picnics, or the laundry. Filled with all sorts. McVitties biscuits..Mmmm. Mince pies, a bottle or two of beer, cheese, more plain biscuits. Mmmm verrrry nice. There are also a bunch of board games in the pub as well, so we had a few rounds of back gammon - goes down nicely with the beer. We didn't win the hamper though, and we did have about 12 tickets - but the bar maid even gave us a few extra... - Ha ha, we weren't meant to win it.

I'll be blogging from home now, it's easier than at work. So expect some more of this random thinking.....

St. Leonards - the next town or suburb alon from Hastings is quite Moe-esk... A bit run down and grey..

I finally took up my swimming challenge last Tuesday, after saying for a couple of weeks that I was going to go 'tomorrow'. Anyway the local pool is about 5 minutes walkk from the train station so I got to it and went along. I think people may have thought I was a bit strange. I went in, paid and walked into the change room with my bag. It was all stalls and lockers, so I picked the stall clotest to me, shut the door and started to get changed. Next thing you know, I can hear mens voices, right next to my stall. Not a good sign I'm thinking, I've bloody gone and walked into the wrong change rooms, what do you do?? So I decided I had imagined it, and continued to get changed.
So there I am kitted out in my togs and bath towel and ready to step out of the stall, a bit weirded out. But then I heard a female voice, was placated and opened the door. I step out into a uni-sex change room which was a bit more than strange. Shortly after found that I didn't have a pound coin for the locker and walked around weirded out for about 5 minutes trying to figure our what to do with my bag while I was swimming. I swear peolpe must've thought I was a freak.... Mind you the whole changeing room experience did leave me feeling like I was in a strange place.

I did go shopping yesterday in Brighton which was kinda fun, in a frenzied 1 hour sort of way. I've been needing some new sneakers/trainers and jeans. I don't fit into the ones I had made in Vietnam anymore - they shank, and that's the story I'm sticking too ok? Anyway I ended up getting 2 tops, a pair of jeans, jacket and a truly exciting 5 pack of socks at some cheap shops. I do love the bargain hunt, Maybe I couldn't handle being rich...? Naaaahhh Anyway, I still have some spare cash for some shoes if they have any in Brighton that I like.

Anyway, I feel like a pizza, so I'm off to make one. Mmmmm piza, and popcorn.

Wa hay!!! Good news to post today! My interview went really well and it looks as though I now have a permanent position with the International HIV/AIDS Alliance!! I should get confirmation of it tomorrow, it just needs to be signed off at HR and then I switch from being a temp to being gainfully employed with a charity again! Let the partnership begin....



Not much else has been going on this week really. It's been hell busy at work, which is great, I'm learning more and the days are flying by.

Last weekend was reasonably quite. On Saturday I got a few things done that have been waiting for a while - like getting my camera fixed - or at least sending it in to be fixed. Hopefully it won't cost me a fortune, but I won't know until they write to me with the quote.

On Sunday Mark and I walked up to the country park to see how Spring was coming on, and it is truly beautiful out there right now. Bluebells, daffodils and blossoms on the branches. Plus it's light now until about 8.30 and getting lighter, so some picnic dinners after work are in order I think, once it's a touch warmer...

Anyway, it's Friday tomorrow, and the much awaited weekend again. Ahh, I'll be off shopping on Saturday, and then Sunday off to work for a friend. Not too much happening really, but the weekend after is the May Day celebrations, which sound like a bit of fun. Sue is coming down for that and hopefully a few other mates, but that remains to be seen...

Until next post - x

Well the weekend has been and gone, as per usual a mite too quickly! All the same, it was a good one. On Saturday Mark and I traveled up to London for a friends birthday party. It was a pretty good night, although unfortunately Sue couldn't come because she was ill, and Em was nowhere to be seen! Ach well, fun was had all the same, some good music, a few beers and chatting to new and interesting people. It was quite a late night/early morning and when we finally stumbled out of the pub it was a little bit of a mission to get a cab back to Peckham.
Mark decided the first one we got into was too expensive and after 'bargaining' with the cabby we got out and traipsed down the street in search of another, which fortunately we found reasonably quickly!

On the Sunday (after a couple of panadol) we went into London for a walk along the Thames with Amber - Mark's 7 y.o niece. Was a really nice day and lots was happening on the banks of the river - mimes, balloon twisters, games, music all sorts of things. It was good to get out and see some new and different things. Amber got a little freaked out by a 'human statue' which was kinda funny. As we were walking towards the gold seated man we asked her if he was a statue or not. She wasn't too sure so went up to touch him, and came back to let us know she was sure he wasn't 'real'. After watching him for a few moments, he moved to a different position, and the look on Amber's face was priceless!

After that it was back to Peckham for a Sunday roast! YUM! As Amber said, her Nan is the best cook in the world, and she's not far wrong, although I can't bring myself to admit she's better than my Dad - sorry.

I came back to Hastings on the Sunday night, but Mark's had to stay on in London for work. So at the moment I have the flat to myself, which isn't so bad although a little quiet. Still it gives me a chance to get some things done that I would otherwise put aside for another time... Ha ha, fun things like washing!

Also this week I've been able to apply for permanency in my position here! I've only just sent in my application, and should know by Friday if I have an interview, an

Well the time to blog has come around again, and really this one is just to let you all know that I'm still alive and kicking, but not actually kicking anyone imparticular.

Nothing amazing has happened. I've just been working and doing the day to day routine things. This weekend I'm off to London for a party with Mark. Sue and Em are coming along as well so it should be a good chance to catch up and have some fun.

Last weekend was reasonably quiet, on Sunday we went down to a different park (for a change) in the centre of town - Alexandra gardens. Strange how so many places here are named the same as home - or not so strange depending on how you look at it. Was nice to sit out in the sun, have a few beers and eat some (more) yummy food. But then again not the most exciting thing to be writing home about.

The weather has gone bad again though and outside it's drissle and cold with a northly wind. Hate those north winds, they really get into your bones. Gawd! I sound like an old woman! I suppose I should leave it there before I start moaning about my joints....

Well spring has, or rather, is, definitely sprung! The Easter break was delicious weather, still not warm enough for shorts, but nice enough to sit outside and soak up some sunny warmth. The sky was blue and the air was fresh and warm, LOVELY!

On Good Friday I was a complete lazy arse and surprised even myself by sleeping in until 2 in the afternoon! Couldn't believe it when I got up and checked the time. Still it was a lovely afternoon so after getting up Mark and I went outside onto the green with a few beers and a bifta. Sat there for a while and watched the world go by as we both struggled to wake up... A lovely afternoon 'twas!

On Saturday both of us worked around at a mates place - me sorting out the office, and Mark in the garden. And surprisingly it was again beautiful weather, warm and inviting you to go for a walk in the park, or have a picnic in a field... Still we didn't take up the offer that day, and went home again to chill out after tiring ourselves out with work.

Derren Brown The Mind Tinker was our Sunday night entertainment. Tony, Dawn, Terry, Debbie, Mark and I made our way to the White Rock theater expecting to be filled with awe at the amazing things this guy was going to do. Well he was pretty good, and I had no idea what to expect, but he basically works with body language and subliminal messages to tell you what your thinking, or to get you to read his mind. There were some good tricks, and some that didn't seem to work so well, which is all part of a live show - innit?
At the start he got this guy up on stage (with a seemingly innocent way of having him selected from the crowd) gave him a locked briefcase, and asked him to figure out the combination in the interval. Anyway, at the interval, we were stood around having a beer or two, and Mark decided to go up to this guy and see if he was a 'plant' or not. You never know though do you? Mark was convinced he was before he even went to talk to him, and then more so after it. At the end of the show the combination ended up being this guys year of birth, his house number and his age, or something like that.
The second half of the show was a bit gross though and started off with Derren hammering a nail into his right nostrill - not a pretty thing to see. Some chick from the audience (Mark was sure she was a 'plant' too) pulled the nail out again - GROSS! Then he walked over broken glass, and even lay face down on it whilst getting someone to stand on his back.
After the show we went out for a few more beers and then back to ours for a few more and a spliff or two. Before I knew it I was napping on the couch in front of our guests. How rude!

On Monday morning Tony gave us a call and next thing we were all going out for Yum Cha at the local Chinese restaurant. Lots of yummy scrummy things to eat, and then a walk along the pier to a pub for yet another beer. It was quite a pissy weekend actually! Still the all you can eat was excellent, and spending the day with Tony and Dawn was nice too. The weather again was gorgeous, and we popped back to Tony and Dawns for some wine, munchies and a DVD that evening. By the time we called a taxi I wasn't walking straight, and the fog had rolled in from nowhere, making all quiet and damp.

Tuesday I somehow managed to get into work without too much of a problem and only one panadol before leaving the house. The fog was still there too, but I don't mind that so much.
Yesterday and today the fog is still about, it hasn't lifted once, which is really weird, I've not experienced something like this before. It's been like living on a horror movie set.... Maybe I am???

Spring is here! Definitely, you can smell it in the air, and the crisp cold has dissipated to a fresh warmth. It's lovely, and long awaited by all the poms - and me!

This weekend in celebration of the first mild to warm weekend since I've arrived, Mark and I went out for a picnic in the country park. We found a nice little ledge on the cliffs facing the sea, and tucked into some scrummy food. Mmmm, pate, nice cheese, wine and other deliciousness! Sitting there in the sunshine, looking out to the English channel and watching the wheeling seagulls and gentle blue of the channel was just what we needed!
We also had a little explore further up the cliff face (off the path) and I managed to put my hand right in the middle of a clump of stinging nettles - OUCH! We looked around but couldn't find any dock leaves which are supposed to counteract the stinging. It settled down after a while, but even now - a day later - I can still feel it in my hand and one of the veins has gone a surprising blue-ish colour... But it hasn't dropped off and I expect I will be ok on the whole. I've never heard of anyone dying from stinging nettles anyway...

Work has kind of calmed down a little. I had a really hectic stint there for a while, trying to catch up with the work I missed when unable to get in coz of the snow. I did a load of over time only to have the majority of it stolen by the tax man... They're the same the world over aren't they? Take every last penny that they can - the bastards!!
Anyway, it looks like I may have snagged myself a permanent position here, which is brilliant. I may be jinxing myself by writing about it. It hasn't been confirmed yet, and nothing is in writing, but my boss has said that the position will be advertised shortly (hopefully not long after Easter) within the organization and that it's mine if I want it seeing that I have been doing that position (pretty much) since I have been here. So that's good news, now I am simply waiting for it to eventuate, and these types of things take ages with charities... HR is staffed by tortoises. I'll have to interview for it again, so please keep your fingers crossed for me!

And now Easter is on its way! 4 days off and hopefully more sunshine! Marks brother and sister in-law are coming down to visit on the Sunday and we're off out to see some magician type guy Derren Brown. Not too sure exactly what he does - hypnosis type things from the sound of it - but he's reasonably well known and Mark seems excited about seeing him in the flesh and not just on telly. Should be interesting if nothing else, and nice to see Terry and Debbie again as last time was Christmas day.

Well that's about it from me. Looks like I won't be doing too much other travel until later in the summer as my savings need a little extra meat on them... But I'm working on it and they're on a high carb diet which should have them looking a lot more beefy by the time my birthday comes around, until then though it's heads down and nose to the grindstone! Which unfortunately means not so many interesting blogs or travel stories... Although a few weekends away to exotic places may be able to be arranged!

Thank Gawd it's....Wednesday?

Ah well two more days and then I can sleep again. This week is full of overtime as I am trying to make up the hours I lost to the snow. So it's early to rise and late to bed for this week and next. After that it's EASTER TIME. Chocolate time more like it!!

I've been having some strange animal omens this week. Yesterday it was a black cat, very sweet he/she was crouched beside the railway line. The this morning a black rabbit, just calmly sitting in a field looking as though he was minding his own business, but then again you never know... Plus 3 Pheasants, male ones with the gorgeous tail feathers and green caps. I hope there's not a black theme running here though, I don't need or want any bad luck. The again I don't suppose anyone does.... Maybe the black animals are signifying dark chocolate easter things...?

Well nothing interesting has happened, and doesn't look like it's going to for a few weeks at least while I try to make my bank balance a little healthier. Mark is off to London on the weekend, I'm staying in though. Gotta love that snow and follow on pay dip.... Anyway, if and when something nice, interesting, or eventful happens I shall write again!

Ahhh. This glorious Motherland, country of my ancestors and family roots, the beginning of civilization as I know it... You'd think that they'd have things sorted here after the 100's and 1000's of years they've had to fine tune their nation.

It's been a really cold week, it snowed again on Monday morning, and the flakes were silently floating down past the bedroom window as my alarm went off that morning for work. So instead of having a repeat of Wednesday the week before where I walked to the station only to have to walk back home again, I called. They said the trains weren't working due to a power cut...hmmm, the amazing powers of English snow. So it was no work on Monday - Wa hay! Except that I'm temping, so no show means no pay. Fair enough though, a day off is nearly always appreciated. So I stayed home and slobbed about, was good in a way as it gave me a chance to try and get over this cold/flu that keeps bugging me.

Tuesday was still cold, but thankfully no snow, so I happily (but carefully) skipped off to the train station and even worked back to try and make up my hours lost on Monday. A 9 hour day and over time for the rest of the week should've set me right!

Wednesday morning snuck around and the back courtyard was covered in white (the snow seems to stick especially nicely to the cat poo in the back yard... mmm) and big globular flakes were falling rather thickly. Again no work, but seeing that this was the 3rd day in 2 weeks that this had happened I was beginning to be a little over the 'lovely white clean snow' and a lot pissed off at the lack of pay! So I called, and then I called again, and then the third time I called I was told that yes, the trains had just started running again! Wa Hay! I was going to be about 3 or 4 hours late, but better than not going in at all. So I rugged up (cheers for the hat and scarf Julianne) and carefully slid down the hill to the station, kinda buoyed by the fact that I was going to be able to get in more than just one day of work this week. (Sad I know) So I skipped into the station and lo and behold, between my phone call and walking to the station, that train had yet again been cancelled, and not one replacement bus to be seen! ARRRGH....

I trudged back up the hill, got a sweat on for my efforts and went back to bed. Obviously work was not going to be on that day. In the afternoon rather than mope about I went out and about with Mark on his errands. A day in the life of Mark eh? We ended up at the pub (after enquiring about some photos, going into Bexhill and to the post office), and then another pub, and finally a 3rd pub in the old town. After however many beers and drunken conversation it was back up the hill and home by about 9pm. Not a bad innings and I would much rather spend my train fare in a bar, any day....

So yesterday, Thursday, rocked around and when I looked out the window after getting up, my heart sank. The ground was still white from Wednesdays snow and the sky was ominously grey and had that 'I'm about to snow really hard' look on it's face.... Luckily though after quickly sliding down the hill it still hadn't snowed and the trains were going! Yay I made it in to work and a 10 hour day partly made up some time for the 2 days missed.... Ahhhh. Not home, but almost free!

So this morning when I woke up and the sky was only patchy with cloud, and the ground was still covered in white, I thought maybe I'd have a chance of getting to work. No point calling the station first as they don't know what's going on anyway.... So down the hill I go. I get to the train station, and the trains aren't running but I'm told there is a bus service to take commuters to a town 2 stations away where they can connect with their regular train. I was a little wary after the week I've had, but thought 'hey, give them the benefit of the doubt, after a week of snow they've finally been able to come up with half a solution..!' So I bought my ticket and hopped on the bus..... Hmmmm, at least it was warm.
The bus got to Bexhill ok, but the train we were supposed to connect with had already left. The next train was due in 45 minutes. I tell you it's bloody cold here, and waiting on a station platform isn't the best way to spend your morning, no matter how rugged up you are! So everyone waited, and then waited a bit more, and what the hell we waited some more, until one of the platform guards came along and told us that the trains had been cancelled, again.... So we all made to leave, but were asked to wait a little longer, and then just a bit more, and oh! they almost had it fixed, thank you for your patience!
Finally after an hour and a half of waiting in the cold and cursing in my head, a train finally arrived. An old one, with no heating but at least ti was going all the way to Brighton, and I finally got to work, almost 3 hours late, but at least I got here!!

Aside from that though, my week has been pretty uneventful. The weekend was a quiet one, and needless to say the next few will be quiet as well as my cash funds have been largely depleted due to this weeks exercise in 'The Brits: how they have tamed the typically horrid English weather'.

Wa Hay! On Tuesday night we got a big dumping of snow, so on Wednesday morning when I woke up and peered our the window everything, including our little courtyard, was covered in white, crisp new snow. It is such a pretty sight to see.

I got ready as normal and crunched my way down the hill to the train station. My footsteps made a sound like I was walking on a bed of cornflakes... mmm cornflakes. I slipped a few times going down the stairs, but didn't go completely arse over tit. When I got to the train station it was to find that the trains had been cancelled. No way to get to work.... A day off to play in the SNOW!! Yippee! So I happily went back up the hill and back to bed for a few hours.

Later on Mark and I walked across to the country park and had a snowball fight on the way, built a reasonably big snowman that looked a little like Ronald Reagan, and I made him a snowangel. (He didn't know what one was, which I can't understand seeing that he comes from a country that is know for its cold weather and snow, and I don't.) We tried some tobboganing with some trays that we found abandoned, but soon found why they'd been abandoned - we couldn't even begin to get a slide going.

Walking in the woods here when it has snowed is soo peaceful, and you feel like you'll spot a fox or rabbit at any moment due to all the tracks you can see from their skipping about the place. There was plenty of twittering happy bird music and the trickling of the stream, it seemed like everything including the woods itself were glad that the world had been temporarily covered in white.

After a morning of frolicking about, getting snowed on, and generally enjoying ourselves it was back home to warm up. Winter here is lovely, such a cozy, pretty season. Then again Autumn was good too.... Maybe it's just that the seasons are so much more pronounced here than at home. Whatever the reason though it was excellent to have an unexpected day off, to be able to play in the snow, and to finally have gotten my wish!

It's 4.53pm and IT'S SNOWING!!!! Yay!

Another new week! And for once I do actually feel rested after the weekend! Says a lot for doing pretty much nothing for 2 days, but hey it has to be done sometimes...

I'm still getting over the beating my account took from going to France, so this weekend was a quiet one, but it was worth it. We spent our time doing the free things on offer around Hastings.

We went up to the Firehills early(ish) on Saturday morning to soak up a little of the sunlight! It's been grey on grey for about two weeks now - France being even worse weather wise. So both Mark and I were more than up for a bit of sunshine and blue sky. The Firehills are at the far end of the country park where we go walking. Taking along a few beers and a splif, we casually pottered around the country park enjoying the sun and trying to shield ourselves at the same time from the bitter northerly wind. Brrr. Poor Mark has recently re-buzz-cut his hair, so his noggin was like a ball of ice. My hair still needs a cut and needless to say is long enough to wear as a scarf underneath my woolen one... Mmmm attractive.
We pulled up a bit of soft inviting moss and sat for a while enjoying the view of the sea, the feel of the sun and the relaxing smell of some fine smoke. Obviously being winter it's hard to find a tree with any leaves on at the moment, but the leafless trees are still able to display some fantastic colour. The subtle hues of purples, pinks and mahogany reds were lovely. We went off the track a little and walked path-less through the woods for a bit, although there's bugger all foliage, there is green everywhere in the moss and the ivy growing all over the place. Plus everything has started to bud. Some of the trees are even more eager than that and have the beginnings of little flowers coming out. Little do they know that snow is on it's way this week (YAY!!) and they are about to meet an untimely end. Mwooooaaar Hooooaar hooooaaar!

We were going to check out the museum that afternoon, but after getting home and unwrapping my layers of wool to have some lunch, I couldn't be arsed wrapping up all over again so piked on Mark and fell asleep on the couch instead. Mark went out though, bless him!

Sunday was very lazy. I only walked to the corner store and back, did some housework (WOO HOO!). The snow clouds and storm were supposed to roll in that afternoon, and I was looking forward to watching the front come in from the west hill with a big dumping of snow. BUT it didn't come, nor was it there this morning.. So patience, patience, we shall have to see if it comes later today or hopefully sometime soon!

The trip to France was pretty good, something new, sights, sounds and smells. Mmmm French bread and butter, how can something so simple taste so damn delicious??

We were supposed to catch the ferry from Portsmouth at 3.15 on Thursday afternoon. Mark picked me up in Brighton at about 1.30pm and we were cutting it a bit fine, but cained along and may have made it in time. Half way there (to Portsmouth) I turned to Mark and said 'Have you got everything?' He said 'Yep' I said, 'And you have your passport?' His face went blank, as he realised he'd forgotten it.... Ahhhh Bugger! So we had to turn around, race to my office, see if we could cancel that ferry crossing and book for the later one that evening (11.45pm) Fortunately we were able to and we didn't lose any cash on missing the first ferry.-Phewww!

So then it was back to Hastings, we got a little lost on the way and instead of it taking 1 hour it took 2. The scenic route when you're in a rush just ain't the way to go. Anyway we got back home, hung about for a few hours and then got back into the car for the expected 3 hour journey to Portsmouth. Luckily though we took the freeway this time so it was only 2 and a bit hours, we got there with plenty of time to spare for getting lost in Portsmouth - which of course we did.

By the time we got on the ferry Mark and I were completely knackered, but we went to see 'Closer' at the onboard cinema and were the only ones in there- wicked, it was like our very own private screening. Because no-one else was in there we were able to have a couple of beers we'd brought along for the journey, and smoke. I've never smoked in a cinema before, I felt sooo naughty! It wasn't a bad movie, quite sad though, but maybe that's why I liked it... Seemed more real.

After that it was back to the seated rooms and a sleep on the floor for a few hours like a worn out child. The ferry got to France at about 6am, and it was supposed to take us about 1 and a half hours to get from the port to where we were staying with friends, but once again, we got lost and it took us 4 hours. I was so shattered by the time we arrived that the day was pretty much a write off for me. After we turned up and made nice for a while I went and crashed out for the rest of the day.

The actual awake time in France was ok. We went clubbing on Saturday night at 'Le Apocalypse'- glad I did, but won't be doing that again.... BAD DJ's - talking over music and not mixing tracks, just abruptply changing partway through one song to another, plus not really my kind of music French house... Trying to speak to people when you're off it, they're French, you can't speak the language, and they can't speak English isn't the easiest of situations either. I did have a good go though and had one French guy tell me that his Father was 53 and his brother was 59....??? EH!?

I did go and check out a few Depot Vient's - Junk shops, and found a few interesting things, some old (maybe 1940's?) black and white postcards, a teracotta pot, and other bits and pieces. Only bought the pot and postcards though, couldn't find any use for the numerous spinning wheels, doors, old nighties/petticoats, complete WW2 uniforms and helmets, and other bits and bobs.

We took a few walks about the country side, but I wasn't able to take any photos though as my camera needs a service, and although I took Marks along, it had a dead battery... damn, but not the end of the world. The roads in Normandy are all edged on both sides by these big earthen banks, like an earth fence. I can imagine it would be so pretty in summer time with all the flowers edging the roads around, and how hard it must have made the fighting there in WW2. It was all on in the area that we stayed. The towns close by had all been completely flattened at one stage of the war or another, but afterwards the French rebuilt the buildings to the same design as the originals, on the same foundations and with the same stones that they salvaged from the rubble. Such tenacity of life and culture.

I'll remember France mainly as lots of yummy cheeses, good wine, and banter with Jane and Chris. Plus the home made goodies, like blackberry jam - YUM! We even got to take some home with us.

We checked out a few bars and beers (as you'd expect of us two)- they don't have any pubs in France, just these bars that double as newsagents and greasy spoons, kinda weird. But cozy all the same.

We got back to Hastings without any hitch - arrived night before last at about 1/2 12 and then was back at work yesterday. I'm glad it's a short week as the travel about was more tiring than I anticipated.
Anyway my lovelies, that was my trip to France.... I think I will definitely go back one day, I'd like to see Brittany, which is supposed to be gorgeous countryside, and of course Paris - you simply can't go to France and not see Paris. I am a tourist here afterall!

Well another weekend is over... They just never seem to last quite long enough do they?? Still, I took Monday off so I shouldn't be complaining really... Was a little sick, but mainly self induced after an evening of wine and chatter with Em.

Saturday I lazed about and only got down to the supermarket, but at least I did get outside and didn't remain completely housebound! I had a big sleep in which was much needed, and that's about it for my Saturday. I was a slob and lazy, but after the last few weeks of full on work it was essential to recharge the batteries.

On Sunday Mark and I drove up to London, well I didn't drive, but chattered on all the way there. Like a good passenger... Mark dropped me off in Herne Hill and I went to visit Em while he caught up with his family. Next time I'll probably go along with Mark and say hi to Mrs Gridley and the other little Gridleys (Ha ha, they're all older than me...) but this weekend I took the opportunity to say hi to Em. I've been promising for months now to get up to London town and visit, but haven't actually come good with it, so it was good to finally be able to.

We had a chilled walk in the park just down the road from Em's place and watched the amateur soccer. Then found ourselves in the Commercial (there's a Commercial pub everywhere... ahh it takes me back!) for a couple of pints, some yummy nuts and a talk about all girly things from jobs, to relationships, holidays and life in general.... No, no mention of the latest make up techniques or dress sizes - so I guess we weren't that girly after all...?

The it was back to Em's, she quickly caught up on her weekend work - so glad I don't have to worry about work once I've left my desk - and then she cooked up a delicious risotto. Mmmm mmm chicken and other yummy bits 'n' pieces. After making our way through 3 bottles of red, or close to, Mark rang and popped by. He met Em and her man Aaron for the first time and then we made our way back south to Hastings.

I fell asleep on the way home so didn't at all live up to my passenger duties, and apparently leaked the fumes of wine from each and every pore all the way home. Poor Mark, I don't know why he puts up with me....? I fell into bed after making it in, and slept reasonably soundly for the first part of the night. By the time my alarm went off on Monday morning though I was feeling a little more than worse for wear, although I did get up on automatic and got ready for work. It wasn't until I paused to open the door and leave that I decided I wasn't really in a fit state for work... so I unpacked my bag again and crawled back into bed where I stayed for all of the morning.

Yesterday afternoon we went to the white friars just down the road from where we live and met a few new characters. Hopefully we'll bump into them again... And that brings everything up to date!

Seems like I have started in the right direction finally! This weekend I plan to do a little more than the usual walk in the park and laze about at home! I also have some good news, but will wait until things are confirmed before telling it, or even hinting at it further. I don't want to jinx myself.

I'm off to London on Sunday to catch up with a friend of mine - Em. Should be good, some girly chats and a Sunday roast! Mmm MM! Mark is going up to visit his mum and a few of his friends so I thought I might as well go with him and catch up with my friends that I have been promising to see and then not.

This week it has finally calmed down a little. The new web site was launched on Monday which means the majority of the work we had to do is now done (thanks to the Fates!) and I have stopped dreaming about work, which is good. Now at least I am resting at nights rather than doing unpaid dream over time!

We book our tickets to France tomorrow, which is great news! Then it's only another 3 and a half days of work and then I'm off to the pretty country side of France for some good food, wine and company! I am so looking forward to getting away to somewhere new! I can hardly come into work each day, I'd rather be off already. Although being occupied with something is better than watching the minutes tick by slowly.

Well seeing that I'm not going to divulge my good news - yet. That's all I have to say for now! Life is good, not nearly as boring as I have made it over the past few months and there is plenty to be looking forward to! Wa Hey!!

This weekend I surfaced from my boring git rut and actually did something note worthy. Mind you that is only note worthy, not epic story... Then again you can expect things to change too dramatically over night.

On the train home on Friday I met a guy called Martin and yapped the whole way home with him - yay - I now have a train buddy for my hour and a bit ride home. We shared a few beers on the journey and by the time I arrived in Hastings I was a little tiddly... Just a little though.

Mark and I were invited to an 18th birthday party for that Friday night - not by the birthday girl but by her Mum... GAWD I FEEL OLD! So after getting back home we had a quick dinner and a few more beers to prime us for the night ahead. So I was a little more tiddly by the time we left for the 'Hero's bar' in town. We got there, were stamped with a Fosters stamp on admittance (HA HA HA) and it was upstairs to the bar and see what the deal was. It was 10pm when we got there, and needless to say, most of the guests had had a few and were all up and dancing, or trying to, even the boys.

We settled into our seats, said hi to Alison (the Mum) and got ourselves a few beers. The night passed in an enjoyable way. Lots of dancing, some wicked music, half heard conversations, and more beer. Then at the end of the night a 'cowboy' shot, and out to find a cab home. After spending about 10 minutes on the footpath trying to hail a cab we finally struck gold and got a lift home. I remember walking in the door but after that ye ol' memory starts to dim to nothingness...
I sat down on the couch and apparently 'fell asleep' passed out is probably more like it, but Mark has given me the benefit of the doubt. A little while after Mark had gone to bed, he heard me crashing about in the lounge room, things falling from the mantelpiece and me stumbling about. I finally made a naked appearance in the bedroom, opened the cupboard door, knelt down and went back to sleep with my arse in the air and my head resting on the clothes I had pulled out in my desperation to find somewhere to sleep, even though bed was less than a metre away... Mark tried to get me to go to bed by calling my name, but I'd passed out again.

The next morning I woke to find myself in bed. Don't ask me how I got there coz I don't know. I stank of alcohol, had a raging headache, and couldn't find my balance as I was still drunk... After a few neurofen, another 1/2 hour sleeping and a quick call to say I was going to be a little late for work I was feeling a bit better. We stumbled down the hill to our local Cafe for a fry up, much needed, and then back home to grab the car and make my way to work...

Thankfully work was with a friend, so the fact that I looked like shit, and smelled very similar to a brewery wasn't too much of a problem. When I mentioned that I'd spent the night in the cupboard he was momentarily worried, but thankfully he had a red bull on hand. He gave that to me saying 'get that into you, I find it always works for me when I feel like you look' and then we got down to work. Luckily admin and computer work is almost second nature and easy enough to get to grips with, hungover or not.
After putting in a good 4 hours work we popped down to the Cenlac in Battle for a few pints (when will I learn?) and then home for a quick dinner and an early night as we were both completely knackered - proves that I am old really doesn't it?

The rest of the weekend was spent in my usual sad git way. Watching telly, sleeping in, and cleaning the house... Ahh, what a way to spend your Sunday. Still it was a good weekend, Friday night was well worth it and a good laugh, Saturday wasn't bad either even though I was at work, and Sunday was a much needed rest!

I'm off to France in a few weeks for 5 days with Mark, and then I'll either be back working here or maybe temping somewhere else. I have thrown my hat in for a few positions closer to home in Eastbourne, and Bexhill, so fingers crossed one of them comes up! If not though, things are still going well, work is pleasant, and life in general ain't too bad at all.

Brrr! The sun is shining, but it's crispy cold, and I finally got my wish for SNOW! This morning as I stepped out onto the street everything was covered with a fine cover of white, sparkling, clean snow. All the paths gleamed, and only the roads that had been salted were black, snaking their way through the pristine landscape.

The trees and shrubs all hold their little deposits of white so delicately, it really is like a new world, I love it! Even so close to the sea... The houses seem like German cakes with icing on top, and the roads are like licorice.

This afternoon I have an interview for the 'sleep duty' position at the nut home in Bexhill. Fingers crossed that it goes well, and that it's something I can see myself doing. I have some work this weekend doing admin kinda stuff for a friend, so that was good news from yesterday. AND the barmaid at the pub that Mark and I like to frequent is leaving, so I'll have to drop in and see if they'd like a Victoria to take on her shifts... Things may be looking up!

Mark is off to France sometime in the next month or so, and I'm thinking I may tag along with him to get a peek at another place. It would make a nice change from the work, sleep, work routine that I seem to have so easily fallen back into. It'll be the countryside of France as well, maybe Paris if I can scrape enough cash together, but if not, I still think it's a good place to start. Cities aren't really my favorite places anyway. But you can't go to France and not see Paris now can you?

It's a cold blue sky today, with temperatures dropping below 0, my ears stung this morning on my walk to the train station. Apparently it's been snowing around the place, but not where I am as it's right by the sea.

It was a quiet weekend, but enjoyable. Mark went off to Brighton and I eventually decided to stay in. Did some doodling and general hanging about, but enjoyed just chillin' by myself. On Saturday evening I got really stoned and fell asleep in front of the telly (what an exciting chick I am!!) only to be woken at about 7am by the beginnings of CBBC - childrens telly with screaming hosts... A quick flick of the controller though and it was back to sleep.

When I did eventually wake up it was to realise that I had used my weekly train ticket for this week as a roche in a spliff the night before... At about 45 pounds per week in travel it made it a pretty expensive roche. After a bit of a panic and a few cups of tea I walked to the train station with the hope that they'd be able to replace my ticket, without charge, or too many questions... Fortunately the guy I'd bought it off on the Friday before was working, and remembered me. I explained that my ticket had gotten ripped (heh heh) and could I have it replaced please? He took a look at it and asked where the other piece was. Not wanting to say it was in the ash tray, I just said I didn't know. Thankfully that was the end of the questions and 5 minutes later I had a nice new ticket at no cost. Ahhhh....
A quick walk about town later in search of some weekend work took me to various chippies, bookshops and a cafe or two. At this stage I don't have anything, but I was able to leave my details at a few places which seemed promising. One of them is a bookshop in the old town that I can really see myself working in, but it remains to be seen. It's either that or a fish 'n' chip store... Mmmm chip fat.
On top of that though I have an interview on Wednesday for a 'sleep duty person' in a home. Basically it's staying the night with some disabled people once a week. Considering that more than half the job is sleeping, I figure I could be the person they're looking for... We shall see, I need to find out more about the job first and just how disabled these people are, and what exactly I would be required to do...

Aside from that I have done none other than stay home, eat chocolate, draw a bit, do some writing and generally doss about. I did clean the house, and then Mark came home.... Needless to say it doesn't look clean any more.

The sun is shining, the grass is lush and green, and it's generally a lovely day. Not warm, but not freezing either. It's much like winter in Melbourne, and a mild one for here I am told.

The weekend was a pretty quiet one, the weather was kind to me and I was able to go for my big walk on Saturday. The country park never bores me although I have walked its paths so many times since being here. It was a great chance to clear my head and sort myself out. Something I definitely needed to do! I took a few pics as well, but with a disposable camera, so I have no idea how they will turn out. My camera is still sick and I need to take it in for a service or to be completely fixed... Something else on the to do list!

Work is going well and I think I may be here with the Alliance for a while, which is good! I am looking for extra work though, just something part time, weekends or evenings... Maybe I'll become a bar maid, or a shop assistant for a while. Not for too long though - I like having my spare time and aren't wanting to give it up entirely! Still something for about 3 or so months should give me some extra cash, which will be handy to pay off my credit cards back home and put some money into savings for my planned road trip this spring. Fingers crossed I find something that's not too bad shortly!

This weekend I may be off to Brighton for a gathering with Mark and his mates. I'm not too sure if I want to go yet, but figure today is only Tuesday, and it's not until Saturday, so there is plenty of time to decide what I want to be getting up to on the weekend. One day at a time - just like my New Years resolution! It would be nice to go out somewhere different, but I'm not too sure if I am up for meeting a whole lotta new people again yet... We shall see I guess.

Mark is in London again this week - leaving today and gone for a few nights. So the flat is all mine for a few days! Don't know what I'll get up to as I am used to having him about most of the time now that he is working from home... Sure I'll find something to do though rather than simply sitting and contemplating my navel for two days.
He bought me the Celestine Prophecy on the weekend - which has been great to read on the train. I may finish that and contemplate the theories and issues it discusses rather than my navel.. Then again I may just leave it for a train read and get to those curtains and finally finish them. Like I said, I'm sure I will find something to do!!

It's a lovely day today! And whatever you've got to do, it would be lovely to be doing it with you... You know not until I wrote that bit of song out did I think it was rude. Please, to whoever is reading this, I'm not saying that I want to 'do it' wiv ya, ok?

But it is gorgeous outside. I'll quite happily admit that it's not warm, but the sun is shining, the sky is blue and there is a cool crispness in the air that is delicious! Feels like winter in Melbourne! Mmm It'll be nice sitting outside this arvo with the sun on my back.

The days have started to get noticeably longer again, it's light again as I make my trek down the hill to the train station each morning. The enormous seagulls are all making their morning squawking tribute to the sun and swooping about joyously in the air and the delicate pinkness of the sun rise beckons you to be in good spirits! By 4.30 now it's only starting to get dark (mind you it doesn't take long, it's pitch by 5). I think that's the worse thing about winter here, that lack of natural light. I could never be an inuit, or live somewhere like Lapland where it stays dark all day long for however many months... Would completely do my head in!

This weekend I plan a long walk to the second patch of woods, it's about 2 hours away, but well worth it. There is such a sense of peace and tranquility there, somewhere you can settle your mind and heart's woes. So fingers crossed that the rain stays away on Saturday!
Still if not, there is plenty to keep me busy inside. I have yet to finish the last curtain for our bay windows. I have done three, and hung them up, and seeing that the majority of the windows were then peek-proof I have put the last curtain aside, promising myself each day that I will get to it and finish it - there isn't a lot to be done even. I am also finishing sorting out all my photos from my trip. So putting them into their little albums and chucking out the crappy ones - which I can assure you there are plenty of. Then I can start bothering people and making them look at my pics! Ha ha! No one will want to come and visit ever again!!

We are working on a new website at work, which is pretty interesting. I'm learning some new things and am pretty busy with a few bits and pieces to do with it. It looks pretty special, and will be a lot better site once all the work is completed, should make contacting the Alliance and finding out about them a lot easier too.

Our part time pet - Luna the Cat - has settled in well to ours, and spends about half her time with us, the other half I assume is at her home. Since we got a desk and a few plants about the place, she sits up in the window, poking her head through the curtains and keeping an eye on the street. It's so cute! But I wonder what her owners would think if they happened to walk past our place while she was doing that. Maybe I should tell them that she's having an affair with us, then again that could be taken completely the wrong way to... Ha ha, it's a lovely day today.....

Well it's another grey and drizzly day, but so far the winter has been pretty much like winters in Melbourne, but with much less daylight. So it's not really that bad, or cold. I wish it would snow, but no one else agrees with me on that one. I want to make an English man snowman, and some snow angels...

I'm a bit better today - sorry for the grumpy and down blog from yesterday. A crap weekend and not getting along so well with your housemate can do that to you sometimes I guess. Still things are better and so much of it I think has to do with attitude. No more letting myself get depressed!! It's only winter, and like I said before, depression is such a useless waste of energy that I can't really justify to myself being like that for too long!

Work is pretty interesting at the moment. We're putting together a new website which hopefully will be ready to be launched at the beginning of Feb. But it's all hands on deck so that it can be. Which means not only does my time get extended again (YAY!), but also I am learning some new and interesting things! Makes the day go a little quicker if you're busy doing something that keeps your brain ticking over!

My sister gave birth yesterday to a bouncing baby boy - Connor. A bloody big baby too - makes me scared to think about having kids knowing that both of my sisters kids weighed in at over 9 pounds when they were born. And Connor (the new one) is 51 cms long. That's a lot of effort pushing him out, and even carrying him around while he was 'bakin'. So congratulations to Yvette, and her partner! I hope it all works out and Brodie (the 1st) settles in ok to not being an only child anymore. I'm sure he will though - he is a little darlin'!

Well that's all the news for me. Back to the grind!

Well I don't say this to often, but thank god the weekend is over and some sort of normalcy can reign again. The weekend wasn't one of the best yet, and I'm happy to be cocooned here in the office and some sanity, even if it is a little boring, rather than at home with the madness.

Last week was full of various little upsets and arguments; so this new week after much fighting, tears, gnashing of teeth and painful realizations for the both of us it is a relief to have something else to focus on. Not everything is dandy in the house of Mark and Vic.

And yet today is still conspiring against me in it's little ways - the noisy smoker has been downstairs everytime I go out for a ciggie. Why is it that some people have to smoke so loudly??
The day is cold, grey and drizzly - it seems like a reflection of how I am feeling. Maybe I'm letting the weather and everything else get to me, I should just pull myself out of it - being depressed is such a waste of energy.

Ahh, if only fairytales were true and you could go to sleep for a hundred or so years and wake to find the world a more favorable place.

Well it's my first day back at work after over a week off, and I tell you, I'm feeling a little more than just dazed and confused... More like stunned and dumbfounded! Don't really know how I got here this morning, and was wondering on the train if I even had the day right and was supposed to be in at work, but all that tells of a good Christmas/New Year break, innit?

Christmas was a good'un! We had a family Christmas dinner with Marks folks, and it was rather nice! I was expecting it to be a little weird considering I'd only met them a few times, but I was made so welcome, was stuffed full of every sort of Christmassy food you could imagine and plied with alcohol. What more could a girl want really? After making merry with the family, playing "ker-plunk" with Amber (Mark's niece) and "who wants to be a millionaire?" with the rest of the family, Mark and I left for London to a friends place for a Christmas night party. It may not have snowed in London, but we still managed to have a white Christmas, much to my delight! It was great to catch up with Sue and meet some other Aussies in England. It was a little like a piece of Melbourne in the centre of Wimbledon.

I was supposed to meet up with Em, but again had phone troubles and ended up missing out on that, much to my disappointment as it sounded like she'd arranged a heap of fun for us - ach well maybe next time, if she's still talking to me that is!! We did go to the common in search of wombles, but had no luck.

So because of my screw up we stayed on at Sue's a little longer. On Boxing day it was down to the pub to drown our come down in drunkenness - and it worked! Ha ha, we met some old geezer there who was telling us he was Graham Taylor, a famous song writer. Could've been a famous tight rope walker for all I knew. But he went on and on about all these people that I'd never heard of, and then about London gangsters like the Cray?s... Apparently he was in with them - but not a violent chap at all he said. Not into violence despite the fact that his knuckles were all swollen on his left hand from being in a fight... of course that wasn't his fault though.... After there it was home again and into some wine... Mmmm a hazy Boxing day, just what we needed!

On the Monday we trotted off to the Natural History Museum in London - you know the one from movies that has the huge diplodocus skeleton in the entrance foyer. Walked around there for hours and still didn't see everything. Was brilliant though, the building itself is a work of absolute beauty, and oh, the detail and effort that must've gone into it is breathtaking. The displays and what not were awesome too. Something I am very glad to have seen. Now I can be one of those panorkles at the movies that says in a loud whisper 'I've been there!' On the way back from there to the car we got lost and wandered around a bit in the cold. After finding the car we headed to a pub to warm up with a beer and then onto the movies! We went to see House of the Flying Dagger and I fell asleep for the main part of it, along with Mark. Apparently it's a really good movie, although a little slow in parts. I'll have to get it out on DVD some time. Christmas day, Boxing day and the day after were the coldest days I've ever experienced here so far. It wasn't snowing, but there was permanent frost over everything the whole of the day. Gorgeous blue sky, but colder than a nun's nasty.

After Monday and 3 days in London we were both a bit over it, so it was a trip around to Marks mum's place to say hello & goodbye, and then back to our cozy, but incredibly messy little flat in Hastings. We'd left it in a state. I'd opened my presents from Mark and a few others from home and just left things lying about, the furniture was all astray as Mark got a new desk, it was general upheaval. Just what you want to come home to after a big weekend like we'd had. Still home is home, and it was good to get back to our own space again.

The rest of the week was spent slobbing about, watching telly and going to the pub for the od and even pints. Before we knew it New Years Eve had arrived and we hadn't really made any firm plans. We had been invited to a party in Brighton but decided another trek away from home and spending the night sleeping on someone's floor after a big night out wasn't on the cards. So we piked from that one and went to a couple of pubs around home. It was time to meet the locals!

We had a pill left over from Christmas, so that and a bottle of red before we went out primed us for the night ahead. When we got there it was reasonably quiet, but not for long. The Queen Adelaide soon filled up with a variety of pirate-ish looking people, and the place was rocking before we knew it. I met this guy called Pete who had a face like one of those rubber puppets from Fast Forward, due to my pill all I wanted to do was squish his nose and pull his cheeks! Lucky for me though I showed restraint and didn't get thumped for my efforts! The evening passed in a bit of a haze, the usual rubbish conversations where you have no idea what you said the next day, and a lot of 'aw' right geezer!' All a bit whey, a bit wooh!

New Years day was spent cuddling in bed and watching telly (again) and pretending that I was feeling ok... Although honestly I wasn't feeling THAT bad! And then before I knew it, it was Tuesday and time to get back to the grind!

intéresser......


Leo July 24 - Aug 23
Tue December 21, 2004
Although the emphasis on laughter and leisure will continue during the rest of the month, from today you'll also have to pay attention to your working life. You might have to put in some extra hours in order to meet a deadline or you could soon be given new responsibilities. If you're fed up with your current job, start considering your options.

Hmm, other job options. Am pretty happy here actually, and have work after the new year too, so no need to worry yet. As for extra hours, I have time to spare, I am up to date on everything. Except that Oscar Wilde novel I have been reading - I want to get that finished before the office closes here!

I changed my mind on the present I got for Mark, but I'm sure he'll like it. He got me something, and was that worried I was going to peek and ruin his surprise that he took it to London with him! Ha ha, I guess I shouldn't joke about sneeking around and looking beffore I am supposed to.

So it's a week until Christmas, and all through the house not a present was bought, not even for... Mark... Sorry, couldn't think of something relevant to rhyme.

But I have finally decided what to get Mark - can't write it here though, as he may be secretly reading - I'll tell you after he's got it. I'll be off tomorrow morning though to get it, while he's still in bed, and to post my Chrsitmas cards. I know that it's probably a little late, but better late than never huh?

I've been checking our mail every day now, and still nothing has come for me - Boo Hoo! Not to worry though, I haven't been that good and bought presents for everyone that I normally would. Being away means I don't have to, and I guess the same goes for those at home.

I'm actually really looking forward to having some time off! The week between Christmas and New Year is all mine! I think I may spend part of it in London, check out the Natural History museum and the other things I've been planning to see for a while now. Seeing that I won't be going to Amsterdam, I may as well see a little of England that I want to.

Anyway, not too much else to say. Merry Christmas to all at home, have a brilliant New Year, and have a drink for me! Kisses!

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So close to Christmas now - everyone here at work is starting to stress about gifts and what to get. Thank the Fates I got mine all done in SE Asia, I doubt I'd have been organized enough when arriving here to get it sorted in time to be sent home.

Still I do have to get something for Mark still, and his family. Hopefully - fingers crossed and touching wood, it won't take me too long. Although I don't have many ideas of what I want to get Mark.

Sue came down from Wimbeldon in London to visit this weekend. She hasn't found any wombles - yet - but we're going to visit after Christmas dinner with Marks family and see if we have any luck. Was good to hear about her travels and all and spend a little bit of time being her Hastings tour guide. Was a lot of fun!
We went fossil hunting on Sunday along the cliffs. Found a few but not any really really good ones. Still we all enjoyed fossiking around there. Both Friday night, and Saturday was spent downing a few or more beers.

Looks like we're not off to Amsterdam over new year after all - but instead some time around February. We haven't been able to get any accommodation, so it's been put on hold. Seems like everyone wants to go there for Christmas and we just weren't quick enough! Instead we'll hang in Hastings. There's going to be a party on the beach (brrrr) and a bit happening around town, so it's the perfect opportunity to get to know some locals!

Life has been pretty cruisey of late, maybe it's just the way I'm looking at it, and maybe it really has been. Who can say?

Wow! The sun is actually shining today! Must've heard me bagging it this morning - it was a heavy grey sky as I was on my way to work. But it's turned out to be a reasonable day, even if it is short!

Last night I had a visit again from the little cat - Luna - who lives a few doors down from us. She's a lovely little thing with a thick black coat and white chest. She comes meowing at the front window when it's particularly cold at night so that we let her in. Maybe she's been banished from her house for naughtiness, or maybe she just wants some milk, as I always get her a small saucer when she comes around.

She cuddled with me for a bit on the couch, and then settled down by herself on the other couch as I got into sewing the rest of the curtains - hopefully they'll be done by the weekend.

My friend Sue is coming to visit this weekend, it's been about 2 years since we've caught up in person, and I am much looking forward to seeing her and hearing about her travels through Turkey and Canada. So is Mark, he's planning on heading to Canada next year some time for about 4 weeks - maybe more. So he'll be questioning her about all that, best places to go etc. Maybe I'll head to somewhere in Europe for a while when he's away. Haven't decided where yet, but I'm sure I won't have too much trouble figuring that one out.

But this weekend I'll be acting as tour guide for my newly adopted town. We'll probably head to the castle, and of course check out some of our true English pubs in the old town. It's sure to be a laugh!

Leo July 24 - Aug 23
Wed December 8, 2004
Be choosy about who you spend time with today. If you're with someone who's habitually miserable or sorry for themselves, you'll soon be dragged down to their level and will struggle to recover again. However, you may feel such sympathy for their plight that you don't see you have any choice but to be with them. If so, do your best to remain positive.

Ha ha.... That's kinda funny - I won't be hanging out with anyone today. Mark has gone to London, and I still don't know many people down this way - or anyone in Hastings! Maybe I should keep away from myself so that I don't drag me down? Heh heh.

Well, another week..... Not too much to say really. A quiet weekend was had.

Apparently my lil' brother's wedding went quite well and everyone enjoyed themselves. I can't wait to get some photos or something to see how it all was... Bet it was a goodun though anyway. My nephew did the page boy thing and apparently looked gorgeous in his tiny tux. He sounded quite proud of himself as well when I spoke to him about it on the phone, just as any 4 year old should be!

As for me, this weekend Mark and I got some material to make curtains for our living room. Soon people won't be able to peer in at night, and we'll have a bit of privacy in the evenings. They're going to be purple and blood orange... It's for bay windows, so purple on the sides and the centre blood orange. Sounds pretty gross actually when I write it down, but looks quite good in reality. Also got a few photo frames and we put up some pictures of our travels and a few other things. Makes it seem much more like our place than an anonymous house.

Went to one of the many pubs in town on Sunday and ended up pretty pissed. Stumbled home and fell asleep on the couch. Not a hugely active weekend this one, but nice and relaxing. Enjoyable all the same.

We'll be booking our trip to Amsterdam this weekend. 4 days of the Netherlands... Looking forward to that immensely.

A friend may be coming down to visit some time soon. She's over here teaching in London. Seems to be enjoying it too. Asked her if she wanted to come to Amsterdam with us for New Year but she already has plans to be in Paris. I guess we'll be able to swap stories of the different cities when we get back and recommend where, and where not to go.

So there you go! That's it from me for now...

Well it's Thursday, and there isn't too much to report as I've just been doing the work, home, eat and sleep routine since I last wrote on Monday.

I am feeling a little homesick - for the first time - today. Nothing inparticular has happened to make me miss home though. Everything here is pretty good. I guess though that Linc's wedding is only 2 days away though and I am missing out on that - I do hope that everything goes as planned with just the one 'hitch'. It's strange to think my little brother who used to be conned into biting into raw onions, sniffing pepper and eating whole chillies, is now doing the whole grown up routine and starting his life with a partner in just a few days. Congratulations and good luck to him!

I was going to go to London this weekend, but work being temporary still has made me reconsider, so I am staying home and conserving cash. The London Dungeons, Tate and Natural history museum can wait a little longer I think. I've been applying for permanent positions left right and centre this week, and it looks like there may be some return on my efforts soon... Just a matter of keeping at it I guess, and I am working at the moment so things are ok.

Mark and I are planning on going to Amsterdam for New Years, only for about 4 days, and it'll only cost about £200 for the whole trip. Not bad really! Am looking forward to getting to the Van Gough museum and a few of the other arty things they have there. And of course, you can't go all the way there and not check out the cafe's! Amsterdam is supposed to be reasonably small and flat, so it looks like we'll be getting around on bikes, saving a bit of cash on transport that way, and getting a good look at the city while exercising. So that's something to look forward to. Here's hoping I don't fall off and bash myself about like the last time I was on a bike!! Maybe take it easy in the cafe's... then again, maybe not I'll be far less nervous and tense if I partake in a spliff or two before cycling around the city.

Being back in the work routine is a little boring after the amazing time I had traveling around Asia... Although work is fun and I do like the people I am with, and the company. Still the call to earn a dollar - or I should say pound - has come around and needs to be addressed before any further long trips can be taken. Still if it's only gonna be £200 to go to Amsterdam for 4 days, I am sure I can have a few other weekend trips to France and other parts of Europe for about the same. So I won't be bored for too long - I hope!

The past week found me with an extension to my temping contract with AIDS Alliance, and finally opening my own bank account here! This weekend was pretty good too. I worked on Saturday with Mark (cleaning up after a renovation for a friends house), and Sunday being the only day we had off together, we decided to see our first 'local attraction' The Smugglers Caves. A bit of fun!

We paid our entrance and then wandered down a dark tunnel with columns carved out of the walls, much like a temple, or church. It was pretty spooky, and I had this feeling every moment that we were in there that someone or thing was going to jump out at us.
Anyway, we walked along the corridor that had been carved out by monks however many centuries ago, quite thoughtfully with little aclove type shelving for candles. So it wasn't completely dark, but reasonably close to - enough to make you wonder what was beyond in the gloom!
Half way down we stopped and turned about - I near jumped out of my skin when I caught sight of the man to my right digging out a cave in the corridor - well I thought he was, but on closer inspection, and after my heart stopped racing, I realized it was a mannequin.... So on we went.
After a few more minutes we arrived in a big cavern, with a sign saying 'Wait here for Hairy Jack'. There were carved stairs leading up to our right and gloom stretching off into small corridors on our left. I didn't really want to wait for something by the name of 'Hairy Jack' so stood really close to Mark and waited with my heart in my mouth... Who's afraid of and olden ghost then???
"Arrr Harrr Harr! So you've coom to see the Smooglures Cave's have ye?" said the recorded message while the head of a pirate/smuggler type character was projected on the wall in front of us. Again, already having wound myself up, I jumped (to Marks amusement). Hairy Jack (thank the Fates that he wasn't someone running out of the dark as I had expected, I would've crapped myself!) then went on to tell us that we were 70 Ft underground, and what the caves had been used for at various times, from smuggling and religious rites, to bomb shelters in the war, and dance halls after the war. Interesting, and then ended by telling us that we should watch out for ghosts, and that he'd be waiting up ahead....
I was getting over my nerves, but not completely, and we ventured on into the darkness.... After going through an old 50's style amusement arcade, we got to a place where there was a show! Wow, all this 70 Ft underground! So we sat down and learnt more about the smuggling history of Hastings. All through this, again, I waited tensely for someone to jump out at us while we sat there in the dark... But they didn't!
Through even more tunnels we went and then the space opened out into a huge cavern with a carving at one end of an urn, and at the other of what seemed to me like a man, an old wizardy type of man... No one knows who carved him (or the urn) or exactly how old he is, only that he predates the religious overtones that have tried to claim him as theirs - the St Clements people. Sooo an unexplained carving, in the coldest part of the cave system, which drops further in temperature for no reason, at strange times - It's HAUNTED!!! Arrrhhh Harrr Harrr, I can hear Hairy Jack laughing now.... Was interesting around there, and the carving is detailed enough to draw your eye to it and keep you looking at it for a while. I wonder what it's significance is, but have no idea, and neither did the information, or the ghostly telephone where whispered information was given from a recording in 3 different languages - smart ghosts huh?
After that it was a few more displays of mechanically moved papier mache people doing smuggling things and then around the corner you go, to stumble upon the customs guy at the end of the cave system and the beginning of the souvenir shop.. 'What country do you come from?' 'Where are you going?' 'Do you know you are in the Green Channel?' he said over and over again... Enough to make anyone rush through there!
The rest of the day and weekend was spent lazing about at home, it was a wet and windy Sunday, so snuggling up on the couch was the perfect end to the weekend and the smugglers adventure.

I read my blog back yesterday, and find I have to apologies for being such a boring old woman! Walks in the park indeed! Who wants to be reading about that?? Unless of course you're trying to get to sleep....

But honestly I haven't been doing much other than work and spend my weekends either tromping around Hastings, exploring the country park, or in a new pub having a pint with Mark. Doesn't really make for interesting reading....

There are a load of pubs in Hastings, and all in the old town have that oldie worldy pirate feel to them. Most times when we walk in things stop for a second or two as people turn to see who it is, and what 'these outsiders' are doing in their local - which is now also one of our many locals. AR HAR har!

It snowed a bit last weekend, or at least tried to. There were big soggy globular flakes of snow coming down with the rain, but they melted as soon as they hit the ground. I'm waiting for the time when it's cold enough that they don't melt straight away and I can run outside to the green and make snow angels and snowmen. Possibly a few more weeks away, but everyone seems to think that we'll be having a white Christmas - YAY.

Anyway, aside from that, it's been the boring work, eat, sleep routine. So not too much to comment on. I rang home for the first time since leaving on the weekend, and it was great to chat with family and my best mate. Also I have to say thinks to my old work mates at Oxfam for sending me that Christmas card - it was the first mail addressed solely to me, that was fun, not a bill and came from Aus. So cheers a heap, you all definitely brightened my week up!

But even that's not the most interesting of stories.... I'm off out tonight after work to meet with my new friend Dina and have a pint or two before training home. Mark is away in London again - perfect timing really for me to spend some extra hours here in Brighton checking out their pubs. Dear me, I sound like a wino now, old woman wino...

It's dark outside, and it's only quarter to 5. It's dark outside, and I'm still at work... I can look across the street and see right into other peoples offices as though it were the middle of the night, and everyone is still hard at work. I can't believe it... bloody weird, and it's only going to get darker earlier and earlier until there's bugger all daylight left to go around. I can see it now - fights in the street about some people not getting their fair share of the sun while others hog the light.

Bloody madness. Would be nice to be home in front of a fire...

Oooh it's all a bit nail biting in the work arena at the moment. Hastings Council rang yesterday to advise I didn't get the position with them, but was a close 2nd. They asked if they could keep my details in case a further position came up, or if the woman that they went with didn't work out. So that was a positive no.... But still a no.

I have put in for a few full time positions here with AIDS Alliance, but interviews wouldn't be until next week at the earliest, and then possibly a few weeks after that until the position actually started. My temp contract with them finishes on Friday next week, so it looks as though I will be doing the rounds of the agencies and newspapers again looking for something a little more stable... Frustrating, but at least I'll still have work of one sort or another. It may work out to be a good thing as I still have to finish registering with the health system here and a few other bits and bobs - maybe try and work out my own bank account now that I have been here for a little while.

I still have the elusive Admin position being held in front of me as a tempter, but still no word on when it might eventuate, or how long for... Again, a little frustrating, but still a ray of hope.

Otherwise life here is pretty good. Mark has again been away for most of this week, and I've had the flat to myself. But he's back today, and I think for the weekend, so we may get out and about and have a look around, although I am looking forward to a long morning in bed - this week has just taken it out of me, and I am feeling pretty flat.

Will let you know what happens with the work irons in the fire. Fingers crossed and touch wood that something turns up soon!

I just noticed that it was the 9th last time I got around to blogging, sorry about that, didn't think it'd been so long... Much to catch you up on then I guess!

So the ninth was laaaaast..... Tuesday... OK.

Hmm, most of last week I was home alone (oooh no! Monsters and other bad things could'a gotten me!! - Ha ha just kiddin') Mark was up in London, and I was being a reliable Aids Alliance temp worker. The beginning of the week went pretty well, I had confirmation of my interview with Hastings council, so that to look forward to on Friday afternoon. On top of that I was to meet up with Nelly on Thursday night and both Nell and Em on Friday night. Wednesday was a bit of a non event, as with Tuesday and Monday.

On Thursday Nelly came to meet me for lunch in Brighton - was a delicious Caesar salad and glass of red down near the beach for a fiver - not bad at all really for Brighton prices. And then for me back to work again.... Somehow wine at lunch saps that motivation to get back in front of a computer under fluorescent lighting. Anyway, I did well and made it through the rest of the day without a hitch. Nell came and met me after work and we traveled back to Hastings on the train. Not much chop for her as by 5.30pm it's dark here now, so nothing to see out the window - she was doomed to be entertained by conversation with me. Still after not having seen each other for about 9 years there was plenty to catch up on and keep the conversation going.

On the way home we stopped off at the bottle-o for an extra red or two, and to check out the man with the massive boil on his forehead. Good for a laugh, and then up the hill and home. That night we stayed up til about 2am drinking and laughing, generally catching up on the 'lost years' for each of us. Nell has done really well for herself and should be damn proud of what she's achieved. Well done, you go girl! Was brilliant to have that time together uninterrupted.

The next morning the alarm went off all too soon, and I was up with a banging head and a mouth that felt like a kitty litter tray, getting ready for my last day of the working week, and an interview with Hastings council that afternoon. The morning went by in a daze, and helpfully it seemed as though someone was operating my body for me. I certainly wasn't in much of a state to be doing it all on my own. By the time it got around to me having to leave I still wasn't feeling much better, but managed to catch the train and make my way to my interview. I was doing that whole alcohol sweat, and absolutely stank, but no time to do anything about it, it was straight on to the council offices and in for the 'test' and question time. It went really well to my surprise (especially with the hangover and smell) and I think I am in with a reasonable chance, I should know by the end of tomorrow at the latest. At the end of the interview they got up to shake hands and do the whole good-bye rubbish. I was stood there trying to shake hands without lifting my armpit, so a hand shake from the elbow down only. I must've looked like a complete moron... But hey it was either that or knock them out.

By the time I got back from my interview and the other bits and pieces I had to do, Nell was also back from her trip to Marden, where her family name harkens back to. Apparently a 1/2 a horse town, oops no village, where there is no ATM or much else. Anyway, that's Nell's story and I shall leave it to her. We already had a spare bottle of red left from the previous night, so whilst awaiting Em's imminent arrival from London, we got stuck into that and more nattering about our day, and memories of people from our past. For me it was my interview and good news from my credit card peoples, and her about her all day journey to Marden in Kent.

Before too long Em's train got in and I ran down the hill to meet her and grab some more liquid sustenance on the way back to the flat. Having both Em and Nell around was like relaxing into a favorite old comfortable club chair. I flet so secure and happy with them, we talked about everything under the sun, hopes dreams, the meaning of life and op shopping. Obviously Op Shopping being a very important world issue.......

On Saturday Nell had to get back to London early to meet up with some other buddies of hers there, that apparently she'd put off for the last 2 days to have more time with me and Em - so sweet - love that girl. Em and I finally got our arses into gear around 11ish to stumble down the hill to the local greasy spoon for a hangover breakfast. No mean feat considering we'd again been up all night, gone through 6 bottles of red, and been ill that morning for our efforts. Still some fresh Hastings sea air, and a fry up was definitely the right cure, and put us in the best of moods for the op shopping we had planned for the morning.

We tromped further down the hill to one of the main streets of Hastings where all the op shops are, and began to explore. We came across the best little shop full of crazy bright pink clothes, and awesome records from our teenage years. We spent maybe a full hour flicking through their collection and singing parts of the tracks we remembered as we found them. After clearing them out of all the good stuff and Em promising herself to buy a record player, we made our way back up the road, with the good intention of going home for a cuppa and exploring the old town on the other side of the hill. Yet the lure of the shops had not loosened their grasp on us, and were in no way prepared to do so. So we found ourselves in a number of other stores, laughing and giggling like we were 15 again. Both of us I think ended up buying more than we'd planned, but neither were upset that we'd done so. I definitely needed some retail therapy, and Em is the best comrade for such endeavors!

After realizing the time we'd spent about town, and how tired we were it was quick smart back to mine to unpack our goodies, give Em a haircut, and for Em to get ready for going back to London and doing her weekend work - reviewing bands. It seemed to be all over too soon. Shortly after our tea and Em getting ready it was back down the hill to the train station and time to say goodbye and make those promises to not let another 9 or so years pass until we did it again.

That night I simply crashed, two days on the piss and such an exciting and emotional time took it out of me. I was in bed by about 10 and fast asleep as soon as my head hit the pillow. Just as well really, coz I still had all the other things I'd planned for myself that weekend in front of me.

I woke at the fine hour of 8.30am - a sleep in for me these days. Again it was brilliant sunshine and crisp air breezing in from the sea. Soon after breakfast I was out and making my way to the country park. Such magical light and a beautiful day is definitely not to be wasted inside! The views around Hastings are gorgeous, and I find they really inspire and motivate me to get some creative work going. As I haven't been able to get going with my clay work I have instead been doing a lot of writing, and a little photography here and there. I used up the rest of my film, and if the Fates are willing, I should have a few good shots. If not, there's always next time.

I walked through Ecklesbourne glen. Up hill and down dale, past old oak trees with their twisted and ancient limbs, around thickets where rabbits and birds could be heard scratching about, through meadows of soft green grasses and along the breathtaking coast line of sheer chalk cliffs. I spotted many an English bird, saw a few rabbits with their white tails disappearing bounce by bounce into the distance, and absolutely enjoyed my self as I walked about the eerie woods in the fresh morning breeze. Although, because it was such a lovely day with bright blue skies and gorgeous bright sunshine, it wasn't really that eerie... I'm sure there will be many more days that are though as winter gets colder and darker.

I wandered through the old town on the way home, and nosied through a few 'junk' shops. Found some bargains that with any luck will be there next weekend after I have been paid again. The winding streets and bulging walls of the old houses and buildings there are almost as beautiful as the woods of Ecklesbourne glen.

After spending a few hours walking about there I headed home and napped on the couch for a few hours.... Lovely way to spend a Sunday doncha think?

Then I had to get down to some 'work'. I typed up my applications for a few positions with the AIDS Alliance, got together an updated copy of my CV, and sorted out the house so I was ready for the week ahead.

By the time I got through that Mark arrived home from his time away with Ian. It was so nice to see him again, it'd been the whole week that he was away, and I had a pleasant surprise with him getting home earlier than I expected. I gave him the gift I'd found whilst shopping with Em, which he liked (always good) and we settled in for a quiet evening on the couch in front of the drone of TV. A prefect ending to a perfect week!

I guess I need my hand slapped again for being a bad blogger, but hey I'm too far away for that, so you'll just have to deal wiv it! Init??

The wedding I went to with Aaron and Marie, weekend before last, was pretty damn fine, a bit of fun. I was good and stayed clothed, although I did have a good go at the red and a few ales.. I also stayed off the floor, so I did well on both counts. It was a bit strange not knowing anyone there, and I felt a little like the obligatory old man that no-one knows but everyone seems to have at a wedding, only thing being that I'm the wrong sex and not quite old enough... Still it was an evening well spent!

The day after Aaron and I took a long walk in the country side, wandering down small lanes and past signs for 'public walking paths' that pointed off into nowhere, and where there wasn't a path to be seen, not even a little old goat track... After our walk Aaron and Marie both came down to Hastings to drop me home, and see mine and Marks new flat. We managed to polish off a whole slab that evening, which considering the effort we all made at the wedding the night before, was not a bad at all.

It was also Halloween, and every now and then we'd get a knock at the door from a ghost or witch asking for a treat. That was quite novel, and one mass murderer - Michael I think from Friday the 13th... or Halloween, asked me to say 'G'day' after noting I was Aussie - still had to pass out lollies to them though. But we did have quite a few left over and I've slowly been making my way through them since then.

On the Monday after I started a new contract - temp still - for the AIDS Alliance, in Brighton. It's a little closer to the station, and a hell of a lot more interesting than the Future media position I started with. Am enjoying it a lot, and hopefully it will continue onto bigger and brighter things - like more work. But in any case I have a few different irons in the fire, so to speak, and I shall wait and see which of them heat up first before going on too much about any of them.

I've also been in touch with a few more of my old high school mates, which is very weird. We're supposedly catching up this weekend/Friday night, if we can coordinate it. It'll be a strange thing indeed. My mate Ben (hugely tall guy who could make you laugh all day without trying) is now married and dropping by with his wife. I've also been told that he's a born again Christian... I want to know when the first time he was christian was... Janelle Marden, ahh the memories of her and that group, coming by to my house warming party and setting fire to the rug in the lounge room.... What fun days! Tim Bradshaw - my high school crush for about 2 years running - and of course Em... And anyone else that Nell or Em have dug out of the woodwork. I can't believe so many of my old mates from a little country town in Aus are now here at the same time. Will be good to catch up over a few bottles of red! There's about 7 or 8 years that need to be filled in there.

This weekend though was my first weekend at home with Mark. Was good to have some chilled time without having to go anywhere. On Saturday Mark decided to take me for a drive around the country side and show me what was around where we live. We drove across to a place near Lydd, that had a whole lot of tiny midget houses along the coast line, really flat land and weird looking people there who were all out running, maybe from the ugly stick. Neither of us wanted to stay so we turned around and headed back toward Camden Sands. Along the way there were miles of fields lined with hedges and filled with the fattest sheep you've ever seen.

That's another thing about here, there are a lot of strange, even ugly, looking people with bad teeth, and also a load of fat sheep. I can't get over it, even when they're newly shorn they're so FAT!! Makes me hungry - no not the ugly people, the sheep.

Camden Sands reminds me a lot of the coast around Warrnambool, sand dunes streatching back forever, and dotted with tuffts of grasses. Was quite peaceful there, so we climbed to the top of one dunes away from the fat sheep and ugly people to smoke a spliff and contemplate the world, and whatever else was on our minds. Ahh lovely init?

I have to explain that 'init'. Seems to be something that nearly everyone here says at the end of almost anything. For instance, 'I walked down the street - init?!' or, 'I'm going shopping, init?' 'My accents funnier than yours, init??' So I've been adding it to the end of my sentences every now and then, for a laugh, although I'm the only one who thinks it's funny. It's quite weird some of the things people say, that I thought were only said in cartoons with English people in them, or old movies. I was sat on the train the other day and this girl beside me answered her phone and was chatting away. Next things you know, she shouts out 'Corr! Blimey!!' I almost burst out laughing, but everyone else seemed to think it was reasonably normal so I managed to control myself... Shouldn't have been eves dropping.

Guy Fawlkes weekend just passed. Mark and I went over to Battle - the town along from Hastings, where, you guessed it - the actual battle of Hastings took place. They had a huge procession up and down the street, people dressed up as vikings, knights, smugglers, witches and all sortst of things. All of them were carrying burning torches, and a few of the societies were drumming as they marched along. The whole town was closed off so that the procession could go through the streets and it was absolutely packed with people there to watch and take part in the bonfire celebration, which for the main part seemed to involve sinking a heap of beer.

After the different societies had paraded up and down about 4 times they made their way to the Abbey, which is part of the castle where Willem decided to live after winning the battle. Can you imagine, finishing the battle, looking about you at all the severed heads, limbs and spilled gutts and thinking 'This'd be a lovely site to build my castle and bring my family over to live. I bet they'd love it here...' Anyway that's what he did, and the field behind the abbey and the castle, is the same place that they fought in 1066. As the societies (and there was a Neville Society, which for some reason I think is quite amusing... the Neville no friends society... heh heh heh) walked into the field where the bonni was to be lit, Baldrick from Black Adder introduced them all, and the battle raisers - these exploding bomb things made from gun powder - kept going off right in the middle of the procession. After they arrived and were given the word they threw their burning torches onto the enormous pile of wood and set it all alight. The fire had also been packed full of battle raisers and made huge booming noises as the fire burnt.

After watching that for a while and getting to the point where people were looking about thinking 'so is that it? What's next, init??' Baldrick announced the firework display. Ahhhhh it was brilliant. I do love a good firework, and this was one of the best I have ever seen. Maybe the ones at Hastings were a bit better as they weren't at all obscured by the smoke, but Oh! There were so many, and all different kinds and colours!
After that they set alight the effigy. Every year they have a different effigy, and this year it was a huge tomb stone - 'RIP Free Speech' was written on it - quite apt really with the recent political climate... The effigy didn't just burn like the bonni, no, it exploded in a series of bigger and bigger bangs, until the final one blew everyone back a step or two. And then that was it. We walked back through the field and up the hill to our car, ears ringing from the bangs and explosions, and smiles on our faces from the spectacle we'd witnessed that is somehow part of our own history.

Woo Hoo!! I got a new job, I got a new job.... I start on Monday with the Aids Alliance in Brighton. Better position, better organisation,and better pay!! The interview I was supposed to have on Tuesday didn't happen til Thursday and I was starting to wonder if the agency who'd called me about it was pulling my leg. But as it turns out, no legs were pulled, and I have something to go to on Monday that it a lot more 'me'!
It's closer to the train station which means no more getting up around 6am, and I get home earlier too! The organisation seems a lot nicer than here, and the position sounds pretty interesting, well the one I should be moving into. To begin with I'll be doing data entry backlogged work and that lasts for about 3 -4 weeks, then another position comes available - at least they think so - in Admin for their policies department, and also helping out with their marketing and communications division. So it sounds like it will be reasonably varied, and interesting. They want me for that role as well which will go for about 6 months or more, so hey presto, I've got something that I like and pays reasonably well!

I'm still off to London this evening to see Aaron and Marie, but have forgotten my mobile phone battery and may not be able to catch up with the others which is a bit of a bummer, but maybe I can sort something out - dunno. Either way it should be a good evening still.

I did make one friend here at future media though - Dina, who is a lovely American girl. She's just moved over here as well and is going through the whole getting used to England thing too. It's nice to know someone in a similar position to myself, plus she's really nice, so I've made my first friend! She's living about another 10 minutes east of Brighton, so a little far from Hastings, but not too far. I'm sure they'll be up to visit at some stage. It's good to have some friends close by rather than having to go up to London to connect with mates. Still a trip to London every now and then is a bit of fun!

We had a huge storm last night. Lots of lashing rain, thunder and an awesome lightning show. Was brilliant, although walking home through it wasn't the best of fun. Being home and cozy though and watching it from inside was a lot better. It lasted for ages, and makes the flat feel really warm and nestish while it's pissing it down outside. I just want to get that fire going though, to add to the whole snuggly feeling. Soon it will be working though, I'm sure.

The train trip in is getting better each time too. I am remembering to take the necessary book for entertainment, and the scenery is pretty good. In the mornings it starts with a beautiful sunrise, views of the beach and sea, and then undulating hills and small cottages. There is a ruined castle somewhere along the way as well, just stuck out in the middle of some guys paddock - or maybe I should say 'some geezer's field'?

Almost the end of the week, and some exciting things are in store for this weekend. Yep, we've got a special on visits from older brothers, and their wives. Normally it'd be a quick trip back to Aus, but as a special offer, for this weekend only, I get to see my older brother in London - YAY!! So I'm off back to London again this Friday after work. I'll be heading up to Kings Cross, apparently much like the Kings Cross in Sydney (but I shall let you know about that one...Can't be as good as ours now can it??) meeting with Aaron & Marie and then the next day traveling with them to Essex (apparently a little like Moe, but again I shall let you know, I doubt they have a delicious Belinda, or Jayden Lesky there...)
Once in Essex I shall be dressing in my finest Vietnamese clothes and attending a wedding where I plan to drink copious amounts and have a laugh... Seeing that I won't know a soul other than Aaron and Marie, I figure what the hell? I promise not to end up on the floor though. The wedding is out in the country side, and Marie's parents (whom I will be staying with for the night after the wedding) live in a converted what-cha-ma-call-it - one of those houses that they build next to churches for priests and such... Can't think of the name of it, but I guess the description is good enough. (If not don't go playing charades any time soon...) Sounds really pretty and from the photos I have seen it looks really nice as well. If I get the chance I'm going to head off into the country side for a nice long walk in the brisk weather. Maybe to clear a hangover on the Sunday... Mmm shall have to remember to take coffee with me if I do.
On the Sunday, when we are all feeling human again, Aaron and Marie are going to come and visit my new flat!! I'm a bit excited about that actually, it's all looking pretty nice now and there are only a few bits and pieces that we want to get to finish it all off. They're going to stay the night, and possibly Monday night. So Sunday will be more beer and bourbon... And a look about town, I think we should visit a pub in the old town... Maybe the pump house... Shall decide when they get here. Ooh it's all a bit exciting really, it's like having my whole family to visit in one person.... And that sounds really strange and I encourage all that are reading this not to think about that last comment too much.
I am off for an interview today at lunch time, the Aids Alliance in Brighton are looking for someone for data entry. Not the most exciting of jobs, but at least it's back with a charity, and apparently there is another position coming up shortly with them that may be my kind of thing... We shall see. Either way I need to leave here. Getting up at 6.15am to start work at 9 is a bit much and not getting home til 8pm is horrendous. Plus the work here is mind numbing, and they would rather I sat at my desk between calls tapping my fingers than actually doing something. I'd do anything at all really rather than sit and imagine my brain melting out my ears from lack of use. So we shall see what comes of this new one. I'm going to have to quit this future media malarky anyway, there's no way I am getting up at 5 to be at work by 8, that is just the height of ridiculous-ness!
The data entry one is only supposed to be for 3 to 4 weeks anyway, and if I can ingratiate myself with these people in that time well and good. But if not there is an agency in Hastings that can get me a job within a few days which would be local, so no more travel to Brighton, and I am sorted either way that the coin lands. Well and good really.